Christmas is often when we feel the absence of those we loved the most. Yet saints and mystics tell us that deceased loved ones at Christmas are not far away: they join our Masses, receive help from our prayers and, if they are already in Heaven, continue to love and protect us.

Natuzza Evolo, the mystic from Paravati, spent her life in contact with the souls in Purgatory and often insisted that the Mass for the dead is the greatest gift we can offer them – but many Catholics live it in the wrong way. In this article we look at 5 common mistakes to avoid, so that every Mass for our departed loved ones becomes a real act of love and a powerful help for their souls.